While a micromanaging boss might mean well, working under
one can put you in an awkward position and negatively affect your job
performance and overall well-being. More
than three-quarters of Americans state that they have been micromanaged at
work. This management style can create
resentment, damage trust and result in employees feeling frustrated and even
fearful. Micromanaging bosses often tend
to lead to unneeded worker stress.
Micromanagement occurs when a boss too closely observes or controls the
work of their employees. They can often
constantly look over your shoulder and tend to be overly critical. Often they ask numerous questions and give
overly detailed advice or instructions.
Just because a boss finds it virtually impossible to delegate, don’t let
yourself get frustrated and negatively affect your productivity. Here are some tips to dealing with a
micromanaging boss.
First
off, try to win your boss’s trust. If
you let them get their way for a brief amount of time and be patient, often you
can allow him or her to see you are doing well on your own. Meet deadlines ahead of time and prove to
your boss that you can be trusted to complete tasks on your own.
Use
your initiative. A micromanaging boss
can only manage what they know you are doing.
If you improve something they don’t think of or foresee upcoming
problems, then this will give you a chance to shine outside their
influence. Your achievements will speak
for themselves.
Plant
ideas. Often micromanaging bosses are
very set in their ways; they can be control freaks. If you want a boss to be more receptive to
your ideas and suggestions, try to make him or her feel like you came up with
the idea together. Try pointing out
flaws in the way things are currently done and work with your boss as a partner
to come up with new methods for efficiency.
You might not get the credit for the work you have done but it can make
your life easier in the long run.
Delegate. If your boss is constantly looking over your
shoulder, he or she is constantly hampering your work. Take advantage of this by using that extra
attention to get them to help you in other ways. If you need to focus on a task at hand, ask
them to help you with other less pressing matters. This will still give them a sense of control
while letting you accomplish and meet your goals.
Explain. While this might seem like a scary option,
trying letting your boss know that his or her micromanaging is not helping you
and is in fact rather a hindrance to your overall productivity. Sit down with your boss one-on-one and
explain to him or her that they can trust you to make successful decisions on
your own that will help the company meet its goals. Show that you’re a problem solver.
Trying
moving your desk as far away from your boss’s office as possible. If you stay out of sight, they’ll have less
ability to be constantly looking over your shoulder as their physical proximity
to you is lessened. As they say, “out of
sight, out of mind.”
Figure
out what your boss really wants. If you
uncover the agenda of a micromanager, this can lead to less stress. Try to learn what’s really important to your
boss and give it to him or her. What
does he or she need to feel comfortable and confident letting you work
independently? After you know what your
boss wants, you can make it happen and develop a better relationship with him
or her. Work with your bosses not
against them.
Adapt. Understand the realities you are faced
with. If your boss is a micromanager, he
or she is not likely to change or be open to change. Your boss is not your peer; your boss pulls
rank so sometimes you just have to accept the cards you’re dealt. Avoid being resentful or defensive. Fighting with your boss won’t make your life
any easier and won’t change his or her management style so you just have to
accept that and move on.
Choose
your battles wisely. A micromanaging
boss will often go to war with you on any issue. Don’t get pulled into these struggles or you’re
just adding unwarranted stress to your work life. Think about what’s really important in the
long run: keeping your job and doing it well.
This will save you time and a big, unnecessary headache.
Reexamine
yourself. In essence, take a look in the
mirror. Is there a reason your boss is
micromanaging you? Maybe you can do things
better and more effectively? Try to
adapt to your boss’s working style and do things the way he or she likes things
done. While it might not jive with the
way you like to do things, often you have no choice.
Lastly
and most importantly, communicate with your boss. Give him or her status updates regularly so
you can avoid them coming over to you to see how your work is progressing. If your boss wants a ton of information, hand
it over. Think of giving your boss
concise progress reports. This gives a
micromanager a sense of involvement in what you are doing on a daily
basis. Ask your boss how he or she would
like to be updated. By doing this, you
expand your boss’s comfort zone so he or she will trust you more in the long
run.
While
it’s often stressful and time-consuming to work for a micromanaging boss,
sometimes you have no choice but to suck it up and play by the rules. If you follow the advice given here today,
you can give your boss what he or she wants while still being able to meet your
goals and keep your sanity.
What
are some tools and processes you’ve found effective in dealing with a
micromanaging boss? Have you used some
of the tips recommended above in the past or do you use other strategies and
methods? Leave a comment and let me know
your thoughts. Let’s start up a
conversation!
Here
are some articles you might want to check out about dealing with a
micromanaging boss:
“How
to Handle a Micromanaging Boss”: http://lifehacker.com/5994065/how-to-handle-a-micromanaging-boss
“4
Strategies for Dealing with a Micromanaging Boss”: http://alumni.asu.edu/news/blog/4-strategies-dealing-micromanaging-boss
“How
to Deal with a Micromanaging Boss”: http://www.askamanager.org/2012/08/how-to-deal-with-a-micromanaging-boss.html
“How
to Handle a Boss Who Micromanages”: http://www.womensagenda.com.au/career-agenda/builders/how-to-handle-a-boss-who-micromanages/201311043150
Until
next time…