“Today in business you don’t get what you ask for –
you get what you negotiate.” For some
people, negotiating is second nature but for the rest of us it may not be. It’s essential to carefully study and learn
negotiating strategies and tactics so that you don’t end up on the losing end
of a business deal. Everybody always
wants to know: “What’s in it for me?”
And if you want to indeed find out what’s in it for you, you need to
become a master negotiator. So how do to
that?
First off, learn to recognize and see both sides of
the deal or maybe it might be better to say, the argument. Know what you want and what they want. You always need to know what it is that you
specifically want out of a negotiation.
Determine what your position is right off the bat. Don’t wait for the other side to do so
first. Your position shouldn’t be
influenced by theirs. Write down a wish
list of things you want before you start negotiating – think about what you’re
willing to compromise on and what you’re not.
You don’t want to be coerced into accepting terms that don’t meet your
desired goals. Be very specific in terms
of dollars, percentages and timetables.
While you might be eager to go after what you want,
don’t forget to be patient. “Lack of
patience can make you look like an amateur and kill a deal.” Don’t let the other side see you sweat. Don’t make known how important your timetable
is to making a deal. If they see you
want to make it right away, they might not be willing to concede on certain
issues – in essence, lack of patience puts the other side at an advantage. Bottom line: Never accept a first offer.
Know when it’s time to walk away from the
table. Know your limits and don’t let
the other side push you beyond them. Ask
yourself what’s the minimum amount you’re willing to accept. It’s not an auction. Don’t let yourself get swept up in the frenzy
and outbid yourself due to over-excitement.
With all this said, you will always have to make
concessions in a negotiation, if for no other reason than to make the other
party feel that they’ve gotten something out of it too. Decide in advance what’s really important to
you and what you’re willing to compromise on and what you’re not. Don’t price yourself out of a good deal. Ask yourself what your limits and “deal killers”
are.
Additionally, you have to be willing to add value to
those at the other side of the negotiating table or they won’t agree to your
terms. Don’t expect anyone to give you
anything for free. Look for common
ground. Show the other side how giving
you what you want (and sometimes that’s some not all) will add value to the
deal and be beneficial to them as well.
Look at how the negotiation can bring positives to both sides of the
table. Seek win-win opportunities. Everyone at the table has different needs and
wants so ask how so ask how the negotiation can be advantageous to both
sides. Always give a little. Remember what’s important to the other side
as well.
Never undercut your value. “If you are willing to take a hit to your
bottom line in exchange for nothing, your credibility goes to zero, now and in
the future.” If you do it once, it
becomes expected and you might look weak to the opposition – they might be able
to pull one over on you. Don’t let that
happen!
Stick to your guns!
If you’ve offered a good proposal and you know it, stand by it! “Don’t let fear, condescension from your
counterparts, or chiding language make you back off from your position.” Put the ball in the other side’s court. Ask them to show you what they think is wrong
with the deal you’ve put forth. Engage
them. Make them think. Go on the offensive; don’t play defense. Don’t back down. Remember, you must always be willing to walk
away no matter how painful.
Lastly and most importantly, document the deal on the
spot! Now that you’ve gotten what you
wanted or at least the most important parts of it, set it in stone. Get it on paper ASAP! The other side’s memory could vanish quickly
if you give them a day or so to mull it over.
While you don’t want to look overambitious or let the other side see you
sweat, make it known that the deal has to go through right away and that
there’s a statute of limitations on how long you’re willing to wait to put the
deal in place.
While negotiating can seem daunting if you haven’t
done it much or aren’t really a pro at it, follow my advice above and you’ll
see you’re a lot stronger than you originally thought and might just walk away
from the table a winner!
Here are some articles you might want to check out
on how to negotiate in business:
“How to Negotiate: Using Business Communication and
Interpersonal Skills to Get What You Want”: http://www.briantracy.com/blog/business-success/how-to-negotiate-using-business-communication-and-interpersonal-skills/
“10 Ways to Negotiate Better”: http://www.startupnation.com/business-articles/9579/1/how-to-negotiate-10-ways.htm
“7 Essential Business Negotiation Tactics”: http://www.csoonline.com/article/595564/7-essential-business-negotiation-tactics
“The Art of Negotiating”: http://www.entrepreneur.com/article/203168
Until next time…